Love is the strange thing. It makes a usually rational person irrational and turned his life upside down. And when someone is in love or having a crush, he throws out his criterias for lover and pursue it madly.
November and December are seasons for love (and also breakup). January is a month where every single man want to have a new love, probably easier to remember the anniversary. And easier to calculate how long the relationship lasted.
A lot of my friends who went through break ups told me that they will stop thinking of a relationship. They told me that man cannot be trusted and how much their lives got upset and they do not want to go through the pain again. Tons and tons of rubbish. Months later, they come back to me looking radiant and telling me about a new relationship happily. I am being honest here, I just do not want to have a relationship for one year but if it happens, I will let it happen.
The cycle continues... when someone tells you his has stopped, he is probably surpressed it. The accumulated energy from the suppression can be unmanageable when released again. Of course, meanwhile, the friend will whine bloodly nonstop. haha. Then he get in and out of a relationship and he whine again.
A friend told me he had a problems dating younger boys but he dun see himself dating anyone older than him. My answer to him is that because we are always looking for someone more energetic or outwardly happier than ourselves, and when a gay man in his 30s or 40s, sometimes whine too much or blog too much. Go to Fridae and you will see thousands of profiles telling you what they hope in their relationships, what they lost in their previous relationships or what they dun like about relationships. And you realised that talked very little about themselves.
On another completely non related issue, I just discovered that I cannot manage anon sex, sex with friends, sex with acquaintances, sex with exes and sex with friends who I know for a period but not very close. Damnit, I need a lot of tables and chairs at home.
I better stop writing, I think I am whining now.
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